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A Caring Stop for Child Immigrants

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“The last stop on a long journey” reads the sign at the door of these LSS transitional foster parents

The following blog, by contributing writer Anne Basye, first appeared (9/3/2014) in Living Lutheran, the online publication of the Evangelical Lutheran Church of America (ELCA). Note: all names in this article have been changed.

A Transitional Home for Child Immigrants

When the doorbell rings in the middle of the night, Gloria and Luis Guerrero answer it with clean clothes, a toothbrush and a big hug.

At the door stands a social worker from Lutheran Social Services of the South and a child at the end of a long, hard journey.

Gloria and Luis, who live in Texas, are transitional foster parents for unaccompanied children from Central America who have crossed the border, hoping to be reunited with relatives in the United States.

The largest placement agency for children in Texas, Lutheran Social Services of the South is also a contractor for the U.S. Office of Refugee Resettlement. When Lutheran Social Services of the South began ramping up its Texas shelters and transitional foster care programs in El Paso, Corpus Christi, and McAllen in order to care for thousands of new arrivals, the Guerreros responded.

They became certified foster parents to care for four children while the children’s mother, a close friend, resolved some challenges. When the family was reunited seven months later, the Guerreros closed their foster home. That, they thought, was that.

Then Lutheran Social Services of the South called.

Empty nesters, the Guerreros now shelter up to five children at a time in the bedrooms where their own kids once lived. In just six months, nearly 80 children, most under 12 years old, have bunked with them – a lot of toothbrushes to distribute, names to learn and tears to wipe.

Crossing two, sometimes three countries, these resourceful children have overcome many challenges on their journey. In the presence of this loving couple, they can finally let down their guard. “We tell them not to be afraid, that they will be safe and secure here, and loved, respected and treated right in our home,” says Luis. After a couple of days, they are “regular kids again, playing and joking.”

Weekday mornings, Gloria churns out eggs and tortillas while the kids get ready for the Lutheran Social Services of the South day program, where they learn some English and connect with medical and social services staff. Saturday, there are trips to the park; Sunday, the Guerreros bring whomever is in residence to their congregation.

The routine is comforting but short lived. Because all of the Guerreros’ foster children are “Category 1” children with a parent somewhere in the United States, the reunification process goes quickly. Lutheran Social Services of the South can track down Mom or Dad and arrange fingerprints and a background check (a federal requirement for parents of very young children) in just three days.

The Guerreros know a child is leaving when the day program sends him or her home with a new backpack. If the parent has bought a ticket for an early morning plane, the resident children say their goodbyes to one another the night before. When a nearby parent arrives by car, they can wave from their porch.

To help kids deal with transition, “I tell them, the chapter of your life in El Salvador or Honduras is now closed, and a new chapter will be opened here,” says Luis. “Often, they don’t want to leave, but we help them understand that we are a bridge helping them across to a new life.”

‘Love conquers everything’

The youngest children to turn up on the Guerreros’ doorstep were siblings 2 and 3 years old.

“We have grandchildren that are the same age, and we can’t imagine them going through something like this,” says Gloria.

The two children were very upset from being separated from the uncle who had accompanied them. “The younger boy was crying, ‘My uncle left me alone!’” remembers Gloria, who sits up with distraught youngsters until they fall asleep and comforts the ones who wake up crying in the middle of the night.

Grateful phone calls from reunited parents are common. “They say, thank you for taking care of my son, and we tell them they have a real good daughter or son and are blessed to have them,” says Luis.

Reunification is not the end of the story. Each child has been processed by the U.S. Border Patrol and has a “Notice to Appear” at a court hearing, often a year or two away.

Lutheran Social Services of the South plays no role in the ensuing immigration process, according to Mike Nevergall, vice president of Agency Advancement for Lutheran Social Services of the South. “We take care of kids who need a safe, loving place to stay,” he says. “Our goal is to identify a family member in this country who has a steady income and a place to live, so when we send these kids home with someone, we can be relatively assured that the child will be provided for.”

Luis feels the same way. “Our concern is the kids,” he says. “Whatever comes up in future for these kids we leave up to politicians and lawmakers. And we pray that things will go fine for them wherever they end up.”

“Like my grandkids, most of all they need love and people that care for them,” says Gloria, who sees this work as a ministry. “Love conquers everything.”

And so they keep answering the door.

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A Foster-to-Adopt Story

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Editor’s Note: Joshua Mauk works for LSS as part of our development team. Thanks to Josh and his family for allowing us to share their wonderful story.

Friday August 15th, 12:30 pm

We arrived early to make sure we looked good and had enough time to sign a mountain of last minute paperwork provided by our lawyer and the department of family protective services. My wife and daughter were both wearing very colorful dresses and I accidentally dressed like a leprechaun….again. I can’t help it. I like vests and ties. Our daughter’s boyfriend was there to show his support and to provide some amateur videography.  We sat down after going through the security checkpoint at Gardner Betts Travis County Juvenile Court. We were all nervous, but I knew there were many more emotions swirling in my daughter’s mind. Excitement. Uncertainty. Fear. Joy. All crashing like waves into the hope that she had when we first met her just over a year ago. Her hope has been to belong somewhere. To be part of a family. She once said at a Circles of Support meeting that she wanted nothing more in the world than to be “Kept.”

One by one friends, family, former staff, case managers, CASA Volunteers, and pastors showed up to gather before we proceeded into Courtroom A to make this thing final. She received inspiring notes, cards, and gifts from those familiar faces, some she hadn’t seen in years. Someone also brought a giant chocolate chip cookie with her new name written in hot pink butter cream icing.

As we wrapped up the placement paperwork which relinquished the State from being completely responsible for her well-being, I made an announcement that we would appreciate as many photos being taken as possible.  We asked the crowd post the photos and  tag us on Facebook.

We proceeded into a large courtroom that had been decorated with stuffed animals. I took note of a stuffed Manatee which I had never seen before in plushy form. The energy was rising and we all took our places. I sat down to her left and my wife was on her right. She grabbed both of our hands and didn’t let go till the very end. Our guests packed the courtroom and we listened to the instructions of our lawyer. Soon the bailiff asked us all to rise, and a pair of robes came walking out to the bench. They explained that they usually don’t have two judges preside over these hearings, but today was a special day because our daughter was very special to them.

They sat and briefly explained why we were all there. Then our lawyer asked her team some questions. She then asked us some questions. She then took testimony from every person sitting in the courtroom. Tears were swelling in every eye as each story was told about how she is loved and how her future is nothing to fear now. She heard so many kind words about us and about herself and when I looked at her I knew she was overwhelmed with support.

The final questions were for her. She was asked if this was something she wanted and if she thought it would be the best thing for her. She nodded and smiled. She looked at both of us and we all hugged. My wife was very strong and only cried a whole lot. As did I.

Then something unique happened. It was like the most delicious icing on the most delicious cake every made. The judge asked our girl if she was still interested in Criminal Justice as a Career choice. She smiled again and nodded and the judges who had known her for eight years asked her to come up to the bench. I think she thought she was in trouble, but she stood up and moved to the ramp that led to the bench. The judges stopped her and whispered something to her. They placed a judge’s robe on her shoulders and asked her to sit in their seat. Then with the most amazing smile I have ever seen, she picked up the gavel and declared,  “ADOPTION GRANTED!”

After my wife and I decided to become verified  foster-to-adopt parents, we did not know we would be adopting a 16-year-old girl; however, when we met her last year at a foster family picnic, we knew that we needed to be whatever it was she needed us to be. We finished up our training and had a home study done. Once all the paperwork was finalized, she was placed in our care. That was 10 months ago and now she is forever part of our family. We will never forget the effort it took to make it work as a family, and now we know that it is possible to bring a stranger into your home and grow into a forever family.

If we can do it, so can you. Fourteen hundred children age out of foster care in Texas every year, without ever finding a forever family. Please consider becoming a forever home for a child that needs just a little bit of love and support in order to make it to the next chapter in their life. Contact a Foster In Texas office near you to start the process to become a licensed foster home.


Foster Parent Appreciation in Amarillo

Foster Parent Apprection

While the event was intended to recognize our wonderful foster parents in Amarillo, the kids had plenty of opportunity for a good time.

Foster in Texas’ Amarillo office held their annual Foster Parent Appreciation Event this past weekend. Families had a blast playing in the water, having their faces painted and meeting new friends. Thanks to a generous donation from Anderson Merchandisers, all of the families went home with a few new DVDs.

Laura, Ali and Sheena, the local Foster in Texas Team for Amarillo, would like to give a big thanks to Anderson Merchandisers, Beautiful Savior Lutheran Church and Trinity Lutheran’s Mountaintoppers for making the day a huge success!

There is a statewide shortage of foster families capable and willing to foster infants, teens and sibling groups. If you are interested in making a difference in the life of a child, please fill out an interest form today! A FIT team member from one of our 14 Texas offices will be more than happy to visit with you.

Special thanks to Anderson Merchandisers, Beautiful Savior Lutheran Church, and Trinity Lutheran for their support.

Special thanks to Anderson Merchandisers, Beautiful Savior Lutheran Church, and Trinity Lutheran for their support.



Back-to-School Bash for Dallas-Area FIT Families

[story by Rebekah Poling, Associate Vice President, Agency Advancement]

ntx bts backpacks - richardsonI think we can all agree that FIT families, food, and FUN go together like peanut butter and jelly. We just had a back-to-school bash for our foster children and parents in the Dallas area, and because of our generous volunteers and church partners, each foster child got a new backpack, filled with school supplies. The foster parents brought their kids to pick up their supply-filled backpacks and enjoy dinner with their fellow families and our LSS-FIT caseworkers.

Our friends at Foodtronix donated a yummy meal for the families, the FIT staff provided drinks, and a thoughtful foster mom brought a massive cake for everyone. The “come-and-go” event was held at the Richardson foster care office, and was topped off with ice cream!Our “Christmas in July” donation drive made this all possible, and the kids enjoyed making thank-you cards for the participating churches. I want to shout out a big THANK YOU to: Our Savior Lutheran Church in Rockwall, St. Peter Lutheran Church in Roanoke, King of Glory Lutheran Church in Dallas, Gloria Dei Lutheran Church in Garland, St. Peter Lutheran Church in Bowie, Abiding Grace Lutheran Church in Southlake, Crown of Life Lutheran Church in Colleyville, Bethel Lutheran Church in Dallas, Hogan Financial Systems in Flower Mound, Rejoice Lutheran Church in Frisco, and Trinity Lutheran Church in Tyler, along with Erica and Ken Stauver, Lorraine and Bob Fuller, and Gary Halberstadt. 

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Family Vacations: Planes, Trains, and Automobiles

family travelsHere we are on the verge of August, and many family vacations are already in the rear-view mirror. If you still have a trip with the kids to look forward to, there are some great resources – and voices of experience – available for guidance. Everyone agrees that traveling with kids can be a challenge; that’s why whole books have been written on the subject. But can Mom and Dad have some fun too? When meeting the Disney princesses is your daughter’s obsession and Florida in the summer isn’t your idea of the perfect getaway?

A great website that lets users share their experiences with other families for better travel planning is Some places are more kid-friendly than others, and this is a deep site that includes been-there-done-that advice whether you know where you’re going or are still trying to decide.

Amazon’s list of best-selling kids’ travel books is well worth checking out, to keep entertain the kids on long trips where you need to keep them interested and engaged.

Of course, your mode of travel – on the road or in the air – determines a lot about how to prepare. It can be a toss-up whether cranky babies and preschoolers who don’t take well to being cooped up will do better with a road or plane trip. I think everyone agrees … the shorter the better. The beauty of a road trip is that when the going gets tough you can pull over, get out, and take a break.  Making fresh-air pit stops, where kids get a chance to run around outside, are usually well worth the extra time en route.

A few important things to remember, before you hit the road or the runway:

  • Check weather reports – so you’ll have the right clothes and won’t take up space with the wrong ones.
  • Check and double-check flight details (if flying) and hotel reservations – Was there a schedule change and you weren’t notified?
  • Snacks! String cheese and granola bars can go a long way when flight delays and traffic jams throw off meal schedules, and as treats/bribes for good behavior. An extra cookie might buy you an added 15 minutes of peace.
  • Paperwork, if applicable – e.g., a birth certificate if you have a lap traveler on a flight.
  • Your toddler’s much-loved stuffed toy or blanket.
  • Chargers and headphones for electronics; age-appropriate audiobooks can be lifesavers.
  • Don’t forget the fun.

Happy travels everyone!


NTX Foster Families had a Wild Time at the ZOO!

Processed with VSCOcam with b1 presetWe had a wild and wonderful adventure this summer, when our DFW-area LSS-Foster in Texas families spent the day at the Dallas Zoo. We went on our own little safari as we toured the zoo, had a picnic, and were welcomed to the jungle by some amazing animals. I’m not sure who had the most fun … the kids who were seeing these exotic animals for the first time, the parents who were watching the sheer delight of their foster children, or the happy giraffes who were hand-fed an abundance of kibble!

Our friends and supporters at the Caring for Kids benefit held in May made this fun day possible. Foster children, their foster parents, and siblings all got to take the journey together through wildlife habitats around the world. They made some incredible memories to share for years to come.

A big THANK YOU to everyone from Caring for Kids who made a difference in the lives of faithful foster parents and deserving children all across the Metroplex.

We saw some cool cats.
We saw some cool cats.


"Baby Elephant Walk"
“Baby Elephant Walk”
We went neck-and-neck with a giraffe.
We went neck-and-neck with a giraffe

Laredo Family Bowling Night

Laredo FIT team, l to r: Jacqueline Verastigui, Mayra Guzman, Yenessy Najera, Patricia Leija, Edgar D. Ricalde

Laredo FIT team, l to r: Jacqueline Verastigui, Mayra Guzman, Yenessy Najera, Patricia Leija, Edgar D. Ricalde

The LSS-FIT Laredo Office hosted a Family Bowling Night at Jett Bowl North last week, for 15 foster families and about 40 little bowlers. The kids had a blast, and siblings placed in different foster homes had a chance to spend time and build memories together. Pizza and drinks all around, and  those gutter balls were long forgotten.

A big thanks to the Lamar Bruni Vergara Trust, for providing funds for this activity.

I can do this ... I can do this ...

I can do this … I can do this …









Gettin’ ready to make that spare…

Gettin’ ready to make that spare









Wait for it …

Wait for it …












Healthy Choices Workshops for FIT Kids

FIT Teen finance webThe Lubbock, Corpus Christi, and Laredo Foster In Texas (FIT) offices have recently hosted Foster Youth Workshops for the 14 to 18-year-old foster children in our program. Kelley Broadaway, FIT’s Statewide Clinical Director, is traveling across Texas to visit our FIT offices this summer, teaching “Experiential Life Skills,” and talking about the importance of maintaining healthy lifestyles and learning good financial practices.

This is such an important workshop for foster youth, to prepare them for transitioning out of the foster care system and into the next important phase of their young adult lives.

Ms. Broadaway requests that healthy snacks and meals be provided during the training. The Laredo workshop (pictured here) offered healthy veggie and fruit trays for snacks, bottled water, and healthy Subway sandwiches with baked chips.* The training also includes info about basic household upkeep, nutrition, grocery shopping, meal preparation, and reading labels and following recipes.

These teen workshops are about a lot more than food, however. Broadaway also discusses healthy financial choices with the teens. She conducts an activity where the kids pretend to move into their own apartment, and they have to predict how much their rent, utilities, monthly bills and “extras” will cost. The extras they always want to include are high-end cable, wifi, smart phones, money for entertainment, and a clothing allowance. Then they discuss the realities of minimum wage (or even a whopping $10/hour) and what comes out of a paycheck. After adding up all the monthly bills, they usually end up $500-1,200 in the hole.

Next, they brainstorm about how to cut costs—cheaper phone plan, drop HBO, get a roommate, cut clothing budget, etc. This exercise is always a big hit with the kids, Broadaway says.

The cost-of-living activity is followed up with a discussion about the difference, danger, and necessity of credit and debit cards, and the real-world topics of taxes, loans, checking vs. saving accounts, avoiding predatory lending practices, and credit scores.

Shouldn’t every teen take a class like this?

Kelley Broadaway’s schedule for upcoming Life Skills FIT workshops:

  1. Harlingen –  July 28
  2. McAllen –  July 29
  3. Victoria –  August 6

Laredo workshop*Funds from the Lamar Bruni Vergara Trust were used to purchase refreshments and door prizes for youth attending the Laredo workshop.


BeREAL Foster Youth are College Bound

Bereal DarrellGrad (3)The end of the school year has been a busy time at BeREAL (Ready, Educated, Accomplished, Leaders), our transition program in New Orleans for youth aging out of foster care. And busy in a good way! Three (3!) of our youth graduated from high school:

  • Taylor graduated from John McDonogh High School and is planning to attend Louisiana State University, where he will study Business.
  • Kayana graduated from Helen Cox High School and will attend the University of New Orleans, studying pre-medicine. Kayana graduated with Honors, and also received a special Principal’s Award along with only nine other students.
  • Darrell had not just one, but TWO graduations as he completed regular studies at Landry-Walker High School (graduating with Honors) and his dual-enrollment program at Bard Early College. Darrell was one of two speakers at his Bard graduation and did a tremendous job! Darrell will leave for New York this fall to attend Bard College, where he will study Zoology/Biology.

In addition, BeREAL’s Transition Coach Michael Patrick graduated from Southern University New Orleans with a bachelor’s degree in Social Work. “Mr. Patrick,” joined BeREAL during the summer of 2010 and has been a tremendous addition to the BeREAL family.

BeReal's Christie Kieschnick with Coach Patrick.

BeReal’s Christie Kieschnick with Coach Patrick.

BeREAL celebrated these tremendous achievements during a special service at St. Paul Lutheran Church, where Pastor Kevin Kieschnick spoke a blessing on all of our graduates. We then enjoyed a delicious lunch at John Besh’s restaurant, The American Sector, at the WWII Museum in downtown New Orleans.

This is what BeREAL is all about – being the support network to empower youth aging out of foster care, and help them on their way to promising futures. Even with scholarships and grants covering their tuition, our BeREAL youth heading off to college will have to scramble to pay for room and board, transportation/travel, and personal expenses. If possible, BeREAL wants to help these youth avoid having to take out massive student loans. What a difference caring individuals make in these young lives!

Bereal Darrell and mentor Rochelle at grad (2)

Darrell with his BeREAL mentor Rochelle

BeREAL grads at St Paul (2)

Grad group with Pastor Kieschnick at St. Paul Lutheran Church

Bereal Ta Fgraduation (2) Bereal Keedy's graduation (3)


Donations can be made online at or call the BeREAL office: 504-931-3408. Email [email protected] for more info or to volunteer.



WHY DO YOU FOSTER? LSS-FIT Mom tells it like it is

Cute baby boy eating lunchAlthough National Foster Care Month is behind us, it presented many opportunities for LSS foster care staff to talk and correspond with our foster parents about why they do what they do. Below is something one longtime foster mom shared with her social worker Alicia Jones. This mom keeps a journal and writes about her experiences. She is a terrific writer and answered a few questions, sometimes referencing her journal entries. Her responses are book-worthy and highly entertaining while so thoughtful and inspiring. Please take a minute to read and enjoy!

LSS: Why do you foster?

Foster In Texas (FIT) Mom: Actually, this one only gets asked every six months. In my living room. By my caseworker. While filling out some six-month review to keep us all in compliance. Something to the effect of: “How does the family feel about fostering?”

The answer changes with the mood. With the day. With the recent entries or upcoming good-byes. It is fluid. I can never give the answer I want because it’s asked while kids are wanting attention, while my brain is in four different places, while my caseworker sits beside me waiting.

Tonight, this would be my answer:

I’ve just watched a video of my three current kids pretending to catch flies at the dinner table. I watched it in its 20ish-second entirety, no fewer than 25 times. It is the most simple game we created out of necessity after leaving the backdoor open way too long the other day. This is what I love about fostering. Over three years, I have fostered piñata hitters, puppeteers, hair braiders, skateboard riders, thumb suckers, ice cream lovers, dog petters, stroller riders, Capital ground hill roller-downers, cat feeders, story book readers, footie pajama wearers, laugh-til-you-pee-your-pants-ers, and yes, pretend fly catchers. I love that we are a family. Though who we are changes, what we are doesn’t. I like to think that the difference between my family and any other family is just the descriptor that sits in front. I love that sitting at the dinner table with three kids still makes me, at least once a week, get up laughing and say: “Hang on, let me get the camera!”

A week ago, having processed again the idea of Little Guy leaving soon, I was NOT a fan of foster care. There are times where I hate the idea that this constantly changing family is my life. That when I say “Hello,” I know there will be a “Goodbye.” That there is a need for homes like mine. That kids ultimately grow in their skin here, become secure, happy little people, are embraced by the community, are adored but then they have to move again. That I watch a variety of children have a single birthday and then watch them leave.

Tonight though, having watched the fly saga happen at the dinner table and in the tub, after reading over and over again a story I have written for the kids to prepare them for Little Guy’s transition, after playing This Little Piggy with 30 little piggies while putting on three pair of pjs, while patting Itty Bitty back to sleep, I am on board. Though it changes with the kids, with each backstory, with court dates, visits and transitions, it is home for me.

About building trust…

If they don’t trust us, they can’t heal. If “D” didn’t think he was safe around me, he would never have spoken to me and sure as heck wouldn’t have demanded, while sitting on top of my friend’s shoulders at Fiesta Texas on Saturday, that he’s “GONNA GET ON THAT BOAT!” after we told him the line for the log ride was too long. I believe the kids can’t feel safe to express even their basic needs, let alone process all that they’ve gone through, if we don’t help them to feel trust.

On what started it all…

I had already been a big sister for a child who was in and out of the system; I’d already been a CASA [Court Appointed Special Advocate] for two cases so this was the logical next step, and I’d made the decision long ago that any child calling me “Mom” would have come from CPS.

Why do I KEEP FOSTERING? That’s probably a better question and no, the answer is not “because I am a glutton for punishment” as my father has said several times. Because as much as I hate to say goodbye, I love love love saying hello to all these kids, meeting them where they are and moving forward from that point. And I’ve come to learn that I love babies, but that’s just an added plus.

Referring to her journal in 2010 …

This was when I had a 5-year-old boy, his 3-year-old sister, and a 2-year-old girl from a different family.

Again, answering the question, “why do I do it?”  Thankfully, there is so much more to fostering than saying goodbye. There is saying hello, you are safe, I love you, we want the same thing, you are an amazing kid, you make me smile. There is going to the same park with 15 different kids and finding out what each one’s favorite thing is. There is watching my friends love on each kid differently and sometimes the same. There is seeing how a community comes together in support of foster kids and their families. There is developing routines and little traditions that may last two months or 11 months or more. There is learning what makes a kid tick, what makes them smile, what makes them cry, and what makes them squeal with joy. There is the journey as a whole, which in my mind (and I often have to repeat this to convince myself), outweighs the goodbye at the end of the trip.

Here’s another tidbit from 2011:

“All I Really Need to Know I Learned from Fostering”:

  1. Never say never.
  2. Buy different character undies for each child … the sorting will be easier.
  3. Don’t try to sweep up rice right after dinner. It’s much easier when it’s dry.
  4. Vague answers to strangers about who you are, who your kids are, and why things don’t always match up are entirely appropriate and acceptable.
  5. Three-year-olds like bibs too.  And stroller rides.  And to be held.
  6. You can make your point known…whether it’s an I love you or a get down from there this instant…regardless of what your child’s primary language is.
  7. It ain’t over till the fat lady sings. Or the judge hits her gavel.
  8. Find the source of what really angers you. It’s likely not a back-talking three-year-old.  It’s more likely that that back-talking three-year-old will one day walk out the door. Or even more likely that that back-talking three-year-old wasn’t treated right in a previous life.
  9. Just when you thought you’ve heard it all, you realize you haven’t.
  10. There are great gifts to be had in caseworkers, fellow foster parents, visiting children, CASAs, and therapists.
  11. Many, many people out there are interested in fostering.  Not enough do it.
  12. It’s easy to forget the good stuff, so write it down.  Fortunately, sometimes it’s possible to forget the bad stuff too, so don’t bother documenting that.
  13. We are all human. Even bio parents.
  14. But not all humans should be raising kids.
  15. At the end of the ride, my kids will not remember me unless their families remind them. They are too young. They will hopefully remember that they were loved by an additional momma during their time here. It’s my choice to believe that part.
  16. It’s also my choice to believe that no matter how horrific the beginning, the ending will be a good one.  It’s called Faith.
  17. Good endings can look like different things.
  18. A day without vegetables kills no one. Nor does a trip to Chuck E. Cheese.
    Keep extra toothbrushes on hand.  And lice shampoo.
  19. It really does take a village to raise a child.
  20. A full night’s sleep is sometimes overrated.  A chance to pat someone to bed or to sing them one more song is not.
  21. The word “hurry” carries no meaning to the under-five crowd.
  22. There’s no need to point out a lie. The liar is aware.
  23. Blood is easier to clean than vomit.  Especially at 1 a.m.
  24. If you say it enough times, they’ll listen.
  25. If you say it even more times, they’ll repeat it.
  26. Make it worth repeating.
  27. There’s a reason God inspired someone to invent paper plates.
  28. School serves hot lunch.  If you don’t make a hot dinner every night, no one cares.
  29. Masking tape, bubble wrap and shaving cream are all really cheap, really entertaining ways to keep kids busy.
  30. Sometimes not being in control is a good, good thing.
  31. Love them like they’re staying forever. Treasure them like they’re leaving tomorrow!
Alicia Jones, LSS-FIT Family Social Worker

Alicia Jones, LSS-FIT Family Social Worker

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